Life

Thursday, November 17, 2005

This is such a CORNY picture!

Yesterday, went to church to study with ros and sharon (yeah check out their blogs too) and then it started raining. Honestly i hate being out when its raining. I kinda fear thunder and lightning too. so we moved our tables in, somewhere in the middle of the multi purpose hall.. then the rain was still touching us! and so i called Aunty Alice to let us use the room upstairs and she came down to check on us.. and asked us to move the tables to another spot which she felt would work. well, it didnt. so i went on a protest, and there u see me with an umbrella. Ros said i cannot wipe my glasses with the wet mist so as to have evidence to show her the next time she comes down.. tell u, i think everybody thinks i'm crazy.. so many of them especially aunty veron kept laughing like no body's business. i think i can't count how many times i've been the bud of the jokes. well, as long as people are happy yeah. I'm just being myself. ok, so i studied from 3- 12 midnight yesterday.. we asked JK to help us buy food and he really did! he went thru quite a lot to save us from the rain and time to study..Good boy..haha.He was a nother joke in himself.. as his coke spilt over all his food.. esp the amac's chicken wraps.. he thought i drank all his coke up but it was his chicken which did so. corny man. i studied 2 family therapies in detail yeterday.. Bowen and Satir..not bad la.. i'm somewhere there. I'm just finding it funny how i'm not stressed at all.. studying at such a slow pace.. also dunno if what i'm studying is sufficient.. well, count:4 days to exams. i havent exactly focussed on the 2 papers on mon itself. sigh woke up so late today.. my alarm wasnt available for me:( and i'm going to eat lunch and move off to church.
Qn that ros put up yest, do you believe in "the right one" or to "BE the right one?" I' like, DUH, The former is my answer. but to my surprise, lots of people, even in church think the latter. Its dismal cos if they believe that being the right one is the way then any tom, dick or harry, sally, mary and kelly will do what right?Why do relationships have its struggles and all? Why are there so many break ups, divorces? why stay in a relationship which is not fulfilling and all because you're trying to make it work and BE the one? conflict after conflict, it goes on and on and jus because you've hit your twenties, you decide to stay in it? come on man, marriage is for life and you never know whether its going to work unless God has ordained it. well, if you believe in God's will for your life, there's definately, the "right one" which God will set apart for you, to supplement you in your ministry to Him. Thats what i call His perfect love to us through another half.